Releasing Parental Shame Audio...

Shame: The Unintentional Inheritance

• Do you crave recognition while hiding from it at the same time?
• Do social situations make you feel like running away?
• Are you highly critical of others, particularly in their success?
• Are you the first to claim responsibility for a project gone awry?
• Do you find your inner voice saying things to yourself you would never say out loud to another person?

Shame is a pervasive and painful belief that a person is inherently and fundamentally wrong for simply being. This belief will hold you back in countless ways because it is so basic to your life experience.

When a person feels shamed, they may not even know that shame is behind the bad feelings because the shame is so indoctrinated in who they believe themselves to be. Even more challenging, people don’t talk about shame openly, which results in the feeling of something secretive, which can lead to more shamed feelings.

We learn to be shamed early on as a way to get us to conform to the rules… “you should be ashamed of yourself”. It is a way to break down your natural instincts as an individual so you can blend into society more easily. As a small child, we may internalize the admonishments very deeply as a core belief that we didn’t just do wrong, we ARE wrong. And if / when that happens, every experience we have will reflect that to be true.

Shame can show up as:

Paralysis – you want to do it perfectly but don’t know how or believe you can so you don’t do anything. Or you might want to be recognized for your performance and abilities, but feel ridiculous when your peers want to give you a reward.

Deflection – you aren’t able to receive compliments or praise, because in your head you either discount the praise as inaccurate or the praiser as being overly nice and if they really knew the truth, they wouldn’t say it. (This directly relates to your ability to receive life wealth, by the by.)

Perfection – if you do everything perfectly, then you should get the results you want and expect; if you don’t get those results, you assume that it’s because you are imperfect in your ability to execute perfectly.

Criticism – you become highly sensitive to other people’s success, and critical of what they are doing and achieving. Your standards become exceptionally high and your words harsh as you internally seek to normalize your experience of being shamed.

Anger – if you aren’t able to meet society’s expectations because you perceive yourself to be incapable no matter what you do or who you show up to be, then anger would be the appropriate emotion as your self-worth is compromised. However, anger isn’t considered a ‘nice’ emotion socially, so you may stuff it down and find yourself continuously in challenging situations that are provoking your anger.

These are just a few of the ways that shame can present in your life. There are many more ways that shame colors your life experiences, particular with regard to wealth. It’s hard to give someone money when they don’t believe they should have it.

A large part of shame is not only what you learned as a child from your parents about how to be a part of society, but what you duplicated from them about being shamed. So not only were you taught how to be shamed, but you imprinted the shame experiences of each of your parents.

Your parents did not intentionally ask you to take on their shame patterns; rather, you were a dutiful, growing being that at an early age absorbed the energy around you to learn quickly. You naturally picked up the energy patterns in your parent’s energy fields, and blended them with your own without censoring what they were or how they would serve you.

It is only now that you can look back and see that these patterns are probably not even yours, although the decisions you’ve made and the experiences you’ve had as a result are now your history. And you are the choice point about what you want to do for your future.

This 30-minute audio helps you to release the feelings of shame that prevent you from feeling good, being visible in your life and claiming your personal power in your relationships. By releasing shame, you let go of a limiting belief that underlies virtually every life experience that keeps you living a diminished life. You also begin to welcome the authentic you into full expression for your wealthiest life.

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(Please note that, as with any of the clearing audios in the Hidden Ways to Wealth Program, this audio may provoke re-activation of the state, emotion or energy being cleared as it is identified and cleared within your energy field. This is a typical part of the release process and most people report initial symptoms subsiding within 24 – 72 hours. Please see the FAQ section for more information on what to expect with the clearing process.)

*Medical Disclaimer, this audio( as with all the other audios on the site) are for educational purposes only and are not intended to be a replacement for therapy or to treat, diagnose, or to cure any medical condition.